Sunday, 18 March 2012

How to Get My Ex Back When He Has Moved On

This article was written by T Dub. It's such a great piece I had to share it with my readers who are seeking help with there relationship woes..

"Have you lost your boyfriend, and are now asking for help on "how to get my ex back when he's moved on'? Don't bother moping, because what you have lost does not mean you have lost it forever.

Here are some quick and simple tips for learning how to get your ex back even if he has moved on to another woman and no longer appears to be interested in associating with you.

1 The first step to getting the man of your dreams back is finding a way to convince him that he still wants you. Unless he really, really does not want anything to do with you, then there are a number of options that you can employ from this point on.

2 One of the most advantageous things that you can do is simply to be his friend. Make a really good friend to him, showing him that you understand him and that you can be around him without creating any drama.

Show him that you can joke around with him and have a healthy friendship with him. When the drama and stress of the relationship and breakup have subsided, he may realize that he wants you again.

3 When you communicate with your ex boyfriend, be sweet and kind to him but don't be afraid to have a little bit of attitude. You are going to want him to want you, but you're also going to want to give him the feeling that he cannot have you just yet. While playing games is not the best way to go, you do not want give an air of hard to get, making him more interested in the process.

4 You should be playing a little bit hard to get, but you also want to make sure that he knows you are available. You shouldn't completely rule out the concept of flirting and hanging out with friends because drumming up a little bit of jealousy never hurt anyone.

But it is important that you play it safe because if he doesn't think you are available, he probably will not find the motivation to pursue you.

5 Avoid acting desperate at all costs. If you act desperate, your ex boyfriend will under estimate you. You are going to want to play things cool, letting him know that you are okay with everything that has happened, and that you are willing to move on.

If you act desperate, things won't work out the way you are intending them to, so avoid doing this at all costs.

6 Any time that you know he is looking at you, or if you feel like he is looking at you, look at him out of the corner of your eye. This sidelong glance will let him know that you are paying attention to him, but in a mysterious "you can't have me" kind of way.

7 Casually remind him of some of the best times that you have had together. These good memories will help him to remember how good the two of you used to be together. Don't bring up any bad memories, because it will only hurt his bad side, which will not do you any good.

These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back."

T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called "The Magic Of Making Up". And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.

Saturday, 17 March 2012

How To Get Over Someone You Love

Getting over a past relationship is very stressful and painful process and sometimes a very slow process too.  However, you must realize that there is no easy way to get over someone you love.  Years may pass and something reminds you of that person and the feeling of pain and sadness seeps in.  This doesn’t necessarily mean you are not over the person but I would think there are some underlying issues that need to be dealt with.

When you have invested a lot of time and emotion into a relationship and it ends; this can have you feeling sad for many years and if you are not careful you this poignancy can manifest itself in chronic depression if not treated early.   This interlude of loss is the hardest.  You will be questioning yourself “how do I get over someone I love.”
Often times you can deal with this situation by removing obvious pictures and gifts which either can be packed away temporarily or permanently destroyed.  Also stop visiting places you used to go together. These are some useful tips that you can try to minimize the stress and pain.
Friends and family are great resources to seek help if you are having a hard time dealing with a breakup.  Sometimes it might be essential to seek professional counseling if you are really experiencing great difficulty getting over your lost love You"ll find that counselors’ offers more specific and detail advice than a general one cap fit all solution on how to get over someone you love.
Counselors will give you an honest review to whether you are spending too much time trying to get over your lost love.  Whereas family and friends will be nilly willy about the whole situation or some will have motives to help you get over the person.  They may have not liked your lost love and want you to move into another relationship immediately without actually dealing with your current break up.
Finally do avoid isolation.  Get out be involve in activities and have fun with friends and family.  If you are not working seek volunteer positions at your local grocery story, movie theatre, hospital, library or school.

Wednesday, 14 March 2012

I Am Still In Love My Ex But They May Not Be

If you have been in a relationship and you been through a breakup and you are still in love with your Ex and your ex isn’t; this is a very sticky and difficult situation.  On the other hand who knows he or she might very well still be in love with you. 

Many relationships end on many different reasons but quite often than not they still harbor feelings in one way or the other. If you think you are still in love with your ex there is a possibility your ex might still love you.  But do think carefully why you broke up in the first place. 
Because he or she might still be in love with you this doesn’t not means it’s the right thing to do.  You have to understand the relationship ended for a reason and this might very well be a blessing in disguise.
However, if you are sure that the breakup was not intended and you both agreed that you acted in haste and you are saying “I’m still in love, I wish he or she was here with me” then I would advise you to serious examine why you agreed to be separated. 
The possibility exist that the mutual split was a huge mistake, but sometimes if you look back at the reasons you both come to the conclusion to split, you might be both better off being apart and work through the pain.
Now if you think your ex wants to get back together don’t think for a minute that it will be a cake walk.   The reason you broke up is still there.  You must ask yourself if you get back together, “what will change?”  While this might make you feel optimistic be cognizant of the fact that you’ll go through what you might call the “honeymoon period” just as you did when you were just courting. 
When this honeymoon period as run its course you will have to ask yourself what will you do?  How are you doing to prevent the problem that caused the breakup in the first place from reoccurring and make you want to part ways again?  If you think “I am still in love with my ex and want him or her back,” then counseling is a viable option to prevent any form of problems from breaking you up again. 

Monday, 5 March 2012

Quotes For Relationships

This is sometime the best way to tell your partner you love them with these relationship quotes :
"The virtue of love is not about loving that perfect person but finding that imperfect one and loving them perfectly no one is perfect but everyone deserves the perfect love."
"Sometimes you got to runaway so you can see who will run after you, Sometimes you got to talk quieter just to see who is listening, Sometimes you got to step up in a fight just to see who’s by your side, Sometimes you got to make a wrong decision to see who’s there to fix it, Sometimes you got to let go of the one you love just to see if they love you enough to come back.”

Tuesday, 28 February 2012

One Of The Best Seller Books On Relationships May Make A Fool Of You

This article was send to my in box and I thouhg I would share it with you.
I have gone ahead to enclose the entire excerpt in Quotes.

"If your ex has just broken up with you, you may be in the marketplace for books on relationships.  But how do you choose the best books on relationships among the many offerings out there?

In this article, I will show you how to choose the best books on relationships.  And the answer will surprise you.  Read on…

First, don’t be fooled by fancy letters after a author’s name. There are many people who find school to be a convenient escape from real life.  Instead of engaging with people, they spend their time in the classroom and library.

As a result, they end up with a lot of letters after their names when they hit age 35.  They use their degrees to indicate that they have “expert knowledge” of a situation.  But does their expertise work in the real world? 
Instead, you should look for books on relationships by authors who have been in the trenches.