Wednesday, 14 March 2012

I Am Still In Love My Ex But They May Not Be

If you have been in a relationship and you been through a breakup and you are still in love with your Ex and your ex isn’t; this is a very sticky and difficult situation.  On the other hand who knows he or she might very well still be in love with you. 

Many relationships end on many different reasons but quite often than not they still harbor feelings in one way or the other. If you think you are still in love with your ex there is a possibility your ex might still love you.  But do think carefully why you broke up in the first place. 
Because he or she might still be in love with you this doesn’t not means it’s the right thing to do.  You have to understand the relationship ended for a reason and this might very well be a blessing in disguise.
However, if you are sure that the breakup was not intended and you both agreed that you acted in haste and you are saying “I’m still in love, I wish he or she was here with me” then I would advise you to serious examine why you agreed to be separated. 
The possibility exist that the mutual split was a huge mistake, but sometimes if you look back at the reasons you both come to the conclusion to split, you might be both better off being apart and work through the pain.
Now if you think your ex wants to get back together don’t think for a minute that it will be a cake walk.   The reason you broke up is still there.  You must ask yourself if you get back together, “what will change?”  While this might make you feel optimistic be cognizant of the fact that you’ll go through what you might call the “honeymoon period” just as you did when you were just courting. 
When this honeymoon period as run its course you will have to ask yourself what will you do?  How are you doing to prevent the problem that caused the breakup in the first place from reoccurring and make you want to part ways again?  If you think “I am still in love with my ex and want him or her back,” then counseling is a viable option to prevent any form of problems from breaking you up again. 

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